June 17, 2012

Father's Day Part 2 Dick Kaiser


This is my Father in Law as dictated by his son my husband Paul Kaiser.  This is my Dad Richard Kaiser formerly known as Dick.  He is one of the most influential people I have ever known in my life.  My dad was born February 13th...a very long time ago.  Throughout the years he has not only taught me the art of doing everything right but he has also laid the tracks on being the best.  He is a man with an uncanny propensity to do things, even the littlest things, better than anybody else.  I feel that this behavior has leaked over to me through osmosis.  My dad is the biggest stand up guy you will ever meet he always knows the right decisions whether I want to know them or not.  His loyalty towards good ethics and moral behavior is second to none. I have idolized him since I was a child and even in my teenage years when I didn't want to believe he was right I still listened.  My dads wisdom is so powerful that even my best of friends go to him instead of their own fathers, he has been through it all.
   He is no stranger from being a true dad.  Dick was always there for me whether it was baseball games, soccer games, golf tee times, and getting into trouble. My dad has shown me what it takes to be a man in the 21st century.  He knows more about the secrets of life than any person I have ever met.  He is naturally a happy person and that is what I want to be when I grow up. Some people cringe while saying under my breath, "I am turning out to be like my Father." In my case I am proud to say that.  Happy Father's Day Dad!

Love,
Paul

Happy Father's Day



Show me a great woman and I will show you the enlightened father, and men, in her life who helped empower her and support her success.  For me it is my father, my brother, and my husband.  Men matter so much to us so on the occasion of Fathers Day I would like to give a shout out to my father the amazing husband to my mom, a wonderful dad, and an all around good person.  For those of you who do not know my dad let me tell you a little about him.
   He was born in Oakland, California on July 12, 1943. He graduated from Santa Rosa High School in 1961 and attended UC Berkley, graduated with a degree in Anthropology in 1965.  He was a member of Kappa Delta Rho during the Free Speech movement days.  His first job was with a food brokerage firm in San Fransisco while going to San Jose State University earning his MBA in 1967.  After graduating he worked for Xerox in San Fransisco. After receiving a draft notice he opted to go to officer candidate school after which he became second lieutenant.  He then completed airborne training and was assigned to special forces, Green Berets.  He served in Vietnam in 1969 as a rifle platoon leader in the Central Highlands and later headed a mobile advisory team.  He was awarded the Bronze Star and Purple Heart and ended his service as first Lieutenant.
   When he returned he moved to Los Angeles and started working for Union Bank of California where he would spend the next 34 years.  He started as management Trainee and worked his way up to senior VP and manager of the financial institution division in the late 90's where he remained until retirement in 2004.  He was then recruited by Bank of the West as Senior VP to organize and expand a Financial Institutions division. He left BOW in  2007 and formally retired.
   My dad is also involved in many other organizations. He served on the correspondent bankers committee of both CA and the ABA Associations, he is a past member of the board of Los Angeles Headquarters Association, and currently serves as a chair of the Los Angeles Downtown Breakfast Club, and is a member on the board of governors of the Southern California Wine and Food Society.  He has been involved with The Jonathan Club for years.  He has chaired the Member Relations Committee and has served on the Audit and Finance committee, the Town Committee and the nominating committee for the board.  He was elected to the board of Directors on 2001 and served as treasurer, First VP and chairman of the Book Oversight Task Force. He is the chair of the Resident Art Committee, serves on the Board of the Jonathan Art Foundation and is a member of the membership committee, the breakfast club and the gourmet society.  He received the Jonathan Trumbull Society Honor in the Jonathan Club in 2010.
  I am beyond impressed with everything my father has done out side his family  but I am even more impressed with the man he is when he is with us.  He is a loyal, dedicated husband and father.  He has shown me how a man should treat a woman and his family and I am honored to call him dad.  There are so many things that I will share with my dad, our early mornings before work when I was little, all the father daughter dances at the club, Indian princesses, our sushi night together which will be reinstated the second I am home. This blog would go on for days if I listed them all so I will stop here and end with the fact that I am so proud of you and love you so much.  Happy Fathers Day!

June 15, 2012

Fashion Forward Friday: Style Icons


Whether we like it or not or want to admit it or not, all of us are touched by celebrity style at one point or another. You might not mimic a celebrity’s fashion sense, but you probably at least admire someone famous out there and it’s easy to see why.  Men and women’s clothing has been dominated by icons of style for centuries. The onset of the motion picture and the creation of magazines such as Life and Vogue have seen certain men and women take the lead in becoming patrons of style. So, who are the icons of the last century and why are they so fabulous? In no particular order, here are 10 of my favorite celebrity style icons.
Steve McQueen



He was the super-masculine, hot-headed, King of Cool movie star.  He always looked stylish and comfortable.  Whether wearing a sharp suit, ala The Thomas Crown Affair   or wearing a weathered blue sweatshirt and khakis ala The Great Escape. But he was best known for his scruffy everyday style which was a sporty jacket, classic knits and he always sported a pair of dark sunglasses.   
Cary Grant


Grant was the epitome of debonair with dashing good looks and a smart but genial persona. He was one of Hollywood’s all-time greatest leading men. Always dapper, the key to his look, from the neatly combed hair, to the tailored suit and classic trench, is that he’s always immaculately turned out. 
James Dean



He is the blueprint of the well-dressed but casual man. Before the actor died at the young age of 24, the star of Rebel Without A Cause showed men everywhere that with four carefully chosen wardrobe staples – jeans, black leather jacket, white t-shirt and aviator sunglasses, you can look timeless and stylish at all times.
Robert Redford



While he can pull off just about anything he puts on, it is his uniquely American and Western-inspired style of casual-cool that elevates the original Sundance Kid. Redford built an entire empire around cowboy style.  His iconic style included a high-quality leather bomber jacket, vintage blue jeans, a tweed blazer and plastic dark-rimmed glasses. While you don't see him doing it much anymore, in his heyday Redford was also known to throw on a wide pinstripe suit perfectly complemented by a plaid cap. Let's see you pull that one off
Warren Beatty




He was sexy and stylish, from his pretty poster-boy image to his leather boots, slim-cut jeans, layered shirts, and an ever-present leather jacket.  Warren Beatty is a man who can wear the best of suits, but his own personal style of an open-collar shirt worn under a hip-length leather jacket permeates many of his best on-screen roles. Beatty’s characters seem to rely on this semi-casual style. He even follows this same fashion template when promoting his films. He truly is a style icon.

Jackie O





 The sunglasses, the bags, the hair! She was the all-time trendsetter and the queen of all-American class .First Lady Jackie Kennedy was the center of a more classic look in the 1960s. The Jackie O look included simple lines, tailored suits, and big sunglasses. Fitted A-line dresses, pearls and pillbox hats were the norm for this extraordinary style icon.  Before Jackie, a politician’s wife was never to detract attention away from her husband. And while many eyes were still on Jack, just as many were focused on his perfectly coiffed and outfitted other half. Upon her entree into the White House, Jackie hired Hollywood designer Oleg Cassini, to create her wardrobe. The First Lady favored empire-waist gowns, kitten heels, gloves and streamlined suits with knee-length skirts and 3/4 sleeves. Besides Cassini, Jackie also pulled pieces from Dior, Givenchy and Chanel, the designer behind her most iconic look: the pink boucle suit and matching pillbox hat she was wearing when her husband was assassinated.

Audrey Hepburn



 The hair, the make-up, the clothes, Audrey Hepburn was the picture of pared-down elegance both on and off screen.  My favorite look is that of Holly Golightly's oversize sunglasses and little black dress in Breakfast at Tiffany's. Hepburn’s style can be seen as soon as her first role in "Roman Holiday" where she added a belt to her skirt and blouse ensemble, setting the trend for future fashionistas to come. Her "Sabrina" Capri pants and flats became a uniform for chic casual, she had the ability to look stylish no matter the occasion. She was born in Belgium and fled to England before the outbreak of the war.
Her classic 1950s and 1960s looks are everything many women aspire to look like today. She loved little black dresses and had a penchant for large sun glasses.
 Audrey she is my absolute favorite and always will be. I have never seen a photo of her, taken anywhere, where she does not look stunning. Goddess of the little black dress, queen of style, poise, and grace, I think more stars today should take a page out of her book.
Coco Chanel



Possibly the chicest women ever, Coco Chanel is a name ubiquitous with fashion.  She was born in France at the end of the 19th century. Chanel took notice of everything on her horizons and adapted all sorts of clothes to create an elegant style of her own. Though she immigrated to Switzerland during Nazi occupied France, she came back with her brand and made it stronger than ever. Chanel developed one of the world’s most infamous fashion brands and is still admired to this day in women’s fashion. She ripped the linings out of jackets, ran them up in jersey and teamed them with slim-fitting skirts shorter than anything before, or matched them with boyish trousers. She believed women could be comfortable and elegant while keeping it simple and understated.


Marlene Dietrich

 


 
Wide shouldered masculine suits were her signature; along with full-on almost drag queen make-up.  With that in mind, one ever suited androgyny more or wore it better than Dietrich. She was acutely aware of image. Although she towered over most pint-sized actresses she felt her legs weren't great so came up with a style that would make her stand out and keep her pins hidden.  She was booed for her manly style and then copied for her ingenuity. Here was a woman being a man being a woman.  Her masculinity appealed to women and her sexuality to men. Feather boas, plucked eyebrows, lip gloss, black satin and sweeping floor length coats are still considered ‘very Marlene'.



Katherine Hepburn

 

She wore the pants. Literally!  She didn't just kick start the trouser gig she became a role model for independent women proving you could be confident and individual with your style.  Hepburn's had a tall, slender and boyish frame which was the opposite of the bombshell look in Hollywood when she reined the big screen. She hardly wore a trace of makeup and dressed with comfort in mind. But that doesn't mean she didn't ooze beauty and glamour at every turn.  Besides her famous trousers, which were wide-legged, high-waisted, and precisely-pleated, Hepburn’s style signatures included simple, button-down blouses, sharply tailored blazers and polished loafers. Her attitude exuded power and confidence and, most importantly, a less obvious brand of sex appeal.


June 14, 2012

The Emerald Neclace



Frederick L. Olmsted
 My alarm goes off and I get myself ready, hop on my bike, and head out the door of my apartment located in a little area of South Boston called Thomas Park, I Bike about 4 miles to my destination, my place of work in Brookline Massachusetts.  On my morning commute I pass numerous buildings, restaurants,houses, and shops, but the very last stretch of my ride is my favorite. This last stretch is when I peddle through Olmsted Park, where I stop and lock up my bike before heading to work, located right across the street from this park.  Every day is something new, whether its a new bird, or meeting new people who are out on a morning run or out walking there dogs before work,  or a tree that has sprouted new growth making the park a visual masterpiece.  I treasure this part of my day so I thought I would share it with you. Lately, I have been thinking about who created this little piece of heaven right in the middle of the city and after doing a little research I found out this park is one of many, including Central Park in New York, designed by a man named Frederick Law Olmsted (1822-1903).  Having died over a century ago, he is far from a household name.  Despite this, his influence remains wide in the United States. Olmsted is the father of landscape architecture.  He was born in Hartford Connecticut and attended Yale (before dropping out due to an eye ailment), he spent considerable time in his early adult life on Staten Island when his family purchased a farm for him in 1948.  When his farming experiment failed, he began traveling in Europe and the American South.  Before taking a stab at architecture he worked as a seaman, a journalist, and a social reformer. In Landscape Architecture, he combined his interest in rural life with a sense of democratic idealism to create a kind of civil engineering that synthesized function and beauty. Olmsted's winning design for the Central Park competition was done with Calvert Vaux, an English architect who had also been A.J. Downing's partner.  Olmsted set up a prosperous firm which designed some 50 public parks and 550 other commissions, many of them gardens and residential projects. Olmsted's style drew from Downing, from natural scenery, from numerous visits to European parks, and from reading landscape and garden theorists, including Gilpin, Price, Loudon, and Repton.   
Olmsted's concept of beauty in design is amazing.  This can be seen in all his works, to name a few, Arnold Arboretum, Back Bay FensBelle Isle, Boston's Emerald Necklace (which I will explain in greater detail), Buffalo New York, Central Park, Druid Hills in Atlanta GA, Franklin Park, Grounds of the US Capital, Jamaica Pond, Mount Royal in Montreal Quebec, Muddy Rivers Link, Niagara Falls State Reservation, Prospect Park, The Biltmore, and The Colombian Exchange.  Every morning I get to enjoy a piece of the Emerald Necklace. It took Olmsted almost twenty years (1878-1896) to create the six parks and waterways known as the Emerald Necklace


The Emerald Necklace
 These parks reach from Boston to Brookline, Massachusetts, including the Boston Commons, Boston Public Garden, the eponymous Olmsted Park,



A picture of Olmsted Park that I took last fall on my way to work

Another picture of Olmsted's Park that I took last fall on my way to work
and the Arnold Arboretum. Olmsted originally designed the project in 1878 to link the Boston Common to Franklin Park, and by doing so clean up the marshy in between areas of Back Bay and Fens near Boston.  The chain of parks which constitute a long series of walking paths along the water is now seven miles long, with a significant portion of the water that occupied Back Bay redirected into the Charles River.  The Arnold Arboretum is a great example of the care Olmsted took in designing his parks, rather than flattening the landscape and ensuring orderly paths, he created them around the existing plant life, making an amazing exhibit out of what was already there. Olmsted was also a talented Botanist and helped classify and arrange some of the plants in the park with the new classification system created by Bentham and Hooker
The Emerald Necklace is the only remaining intact linear park designed by Olmsted, Americas first landscape architect.  It is listed on the national register of historic places.  Green and open spaces, rivers and ponds, a wealth and diversity of trees, shrubs, flowers, wildlife, bridges and other structures make up this urban jewel.




References: http://www.newbedford.com/olmsted.html#works, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Olmsted_Park, http://www.nps.gov/frla/index.htm

June 13, 2012

Wellness Wednesday-Skin care



Looking to get your body beach ready?  Lets start with your skin.

One of the best ways to keep the skin healthy and radiant is through exfoliation.  This process is used to remove old dead skin cells and dirt.  Exfoliating is a skin treatment done to slough off dead skin using a sponge or a brush.  This process is commonly used on the face to remove pimples, whiteheads, blackheads, and acne in general.  Dead skin cells when left untreated can create a problem in the sebaceous gland making your skin look patchy and dull. 

Facial exfoliation: Doing this will encourage the growth of new skin cells, making your skin look brighter and feel smoother. The process is done by first washing your face to remove any dirt, makeup, or impurities on your skin.  Wet the surface of your skin and apply an exfoliating cleanser with a sponge or brush.  Scrub your face in circular motions avoiding the eye area.  Rinse with look warm water and pat dry.  Finnish off by applying a nourishing cream and moisturizer to your skin.

This process can be done on the entire body, not just the face.  If your skin is dry and lacks luster try this body scrub to create a sexy summer glow.


Makes 1.5 Cups- 3 treatments

Ingredients:

1/2 cup Finley grained sea salt
1/2 cup Finley ground coffee
1/4 cup of sesame oil
1/2 tsp eucalyptus essential oil

Directions:

In a small bowl, mix the salt, coffee, sesame oil, and eucalyptus oil.  Use this scrub in the shower away from running water.  Massage into damp skin with long, semi-firm circular motions.  Take your time in order to activate all the ingredients. Store the leftover in an air tight Tupperware container and pop in the fridge.  This scrub can be used 3 to 4 times a week.

The secret to this scrub is all in the ingredients.  Sea salt is used to retexurize the skin, while the coffee grounds help firm the skin and fight cellulite.  Sesame oil is an important ingredient because it nourishes and softens your skin.  The Eucalyptus oil purifies and oxygenates the skin.

Remember that your skin is your largest organ and it drinks up everything that you put on it, right into your blood stream.  This means washes and lotions get into your body.  Not that many people inform themselves about what ingredients are in their skin care products.  Sometimes going natural can be beneficial. The following items are all natural ingredients in popular face and body care products, I have included definitions so you can be a little more informed as to what your putting in your body.

ALTHAEA - extract: Smooths, softens.
ALPHA HYDROXY ACIDS - Natural plant extracts that improve the look and condition of skin by accelerating the exfoliation of outer dead skin cells revealing younger fresher skin. Additionally, AHA's stimulate collagen synthesis, boost skin elasticity and increase cell renewal
ASCORBYL PALMITATE (vit. c) - Antioxidant.

ASCORBIC ACID - Is the scientific name for vitamin C, which is typically found in fresh fruits and vegetables. It can stimulate skin protein production when applied to skin.

HYPERICUM PERFORATUM - St. John's Wort. Has a wide range of medicinal uses; it is an antibacterial used to heal deep cuts and wounds, soothes and eases the pain of burns by lowering skin temperature, and is a diuretic, helping to eliminate waste materials from the body.
IRON OXIDE - A natural mineral pigment.
KAOLIN - Natural Clay. Finely textured, light colored clay. Pink, green and white clays are all members of kaolin family. Its excellent absorbent, tightening and toning properties make it valuable for face masks.


LANOLIN - Obtained from the wax found on sheep wool after shearing, refined and purified to cosmetic specifications. Has a characteristic 'barnyard' odor. Rich in cholesterol, Lanolin is well suited for the treatment of brittle hair and fingernails, and dry and raw elbows, knees and feet. An excellent emollient, skin lubricant and protectant especially helpful in winter when extremes of temperature and wind can damage skin. Lanolin is also useful in natural cosmetic formulations as it adds thickness and 'body' to a cream or salve without the use of chemical thickeners.
PANTHENOL – (Pro vitamin B5). Conditions, Moisturizes and hydrates the hair when absorbed.
RETINYL PALMITATE (Vitamin A) – Antioxidant. A stable form of Vitamin A that acts as a skin normalizer. Helps remind the cells of what they "did" when they were young. Nourishes the skin when applied topically.
SAMBUCUS CANADENSIS - extract: Astringent
SODIUM BICARBONATE - Baking Soda. A natural, alkaline salt crystal. Very effective cleansing agent, yet mild to the hair and skin. Also extremely absorbent of odors.

SODIUM CITRATE - A natural alpha hydroxy acid salt that naturally adjusts pH.

SODIUM CHLORIDE - Concentrated mineral salt from the sea. Softens skin and acts as a detoxifying cleanser that draws impurities out of the body through the skin.
STEARIC ACID (Vegetable Fat) - When a vegetable oil molecule is split in half, glycerin and fatty acids are the result. These fatty acids are reacted with borax (a natural salt) to produce a natural emulsifier. Emulsifiers enable oils to be dispersed throughout a water base to form a cream or lotion that does not separate.




TITANIUM DIOXIDE - Naturally derived from a mineral. Used chiefly as a white pigment, and as an opacifier. Reflects light, so (when stated as such) can be considered a natural sun block.

TOCOPHEROL (D-Alpha) - Vitamin E. Found in vegetable oils, especially Soybean and Wheat Germ. A natural anti-oxidant, guarding against rancidity in oils. Valued for its soothing, regenerating properties. D-Alpha Tocopherol is natural Vitamin E. DL-Alpha Tocopherol is synthetic.

TOCOPHERYL ACETATE - The ester of Tocopherol and Acetic Acid, a man-made form of Vitamin E that helps protect the skin (a 'stabilized' version of Tocopherol).

June 12, 2012

Pay it Forward

We are living in a "me first" type of society. For many of us, we are taught from the cradle to "look out for number one!" and many of us do just that. We are self-focused and self-possessed. An unfortunately large segment of the world population finds it very difficult to see beyond themselves to look at those around them. How often do we act without considering the effect of our actions on those around us? 
We all complain, but most of us have it so easy.  Sure there are rough spots along the way but with every bad thing in life, there is generally a balance of good as well.  When life gets tough acts of kindness whether from a stranger or someone you know can make a tremendous difference in how we approach the hardships.
Next time you are able to help someone out, does it.  Think of it as serial reciprocity or paying it forward.  This is the concept of asking that a good turn be paid by having it done to others. Do just one little deed to help someone out today. Be it a loved one, a neighbor, a co-worker, or a stranger.  Try to make a habit out of it.  By doing this you are helping build kindness-aware communities that value spirit and action and kindness to others.
It is often overlooked how important an act of kindness can be to someone who is in need. We find it easy to look past the beggar or the disabled person. We would rather avoid eye contact with the person who is standing on the street corner holding a sign. We turn a blind eye to the homeless woman and her children sleeping in the doorway of an abandoned building. We drive right past that car that is broken down on the side of the highway, and we don't give them a second thought.
Our own acts of kindness, however, can change the life of a person who is in a point of struggle in their lives. If we stop to give the beggar something to eat, or to help the disabled person to gather items that are out of their arms read; if we take the time to provide clothing to the person holding that sign so that he can perhaps find himself a job; if we offer shelter to the woman and her children; if we stop to make sure that the person broken down on the side of the highway has been able to call for help -- If we do these things, perform these acts of kindness, we have the potential to not only change the course of a person's day, but to change their outlook on life (even if only for a short period of time).
Every action you take affects the life of someone around you. I challenge you to pay it forward.

Taco Tuesday

Carne Asada Tacos

 Ingredients: 

3 lbs of flank steak
1/3 cup white vinegar
1/2 cup soy sauce
4 cloves garlic, minced
1/2 cup Olive Oil
1 tsp salt
1 tsp each,ground black pepper,ground white pepper, chili powder, garlic powder, dried oregano,ground cumin, paprika.
1 white onion, chopped
1/2 cup fresh chopped cilantro
1 lime, juiced
2 large tomatoes, chopped
2 jalapeno peppers, chopped
1 white onion quartered
4 cloves garlic, peeled
4 dries New Mexico Chile Pods
2 cups grated Cotija cheese (optional)
2 limes, cut into wedges
1 (32) oz package corn tortillas
salt and pepper to taste

Preparation:

Lye the flank steak in a large glass baking dish.  In a medium bowl, whisk together the vinegar, soy sauce, 4 cloves of garlic, juice of two limes, and olive oil.  Season with salt, black pepper, white pepper, Garlic powder, Chile powder, oregano, cumin, and paprika.  Whisk until blended, then pour over the steak in a dish. Turn over once to coat both sides.  Cover in plastic wrap and marinate 1 to 8 hours.
In a small bowl, stir together 1 chopped white onion, cilantro, and the juice of 1 lime.  Set aside to use as a relish for the tacos.
Heat skillet over medium high heat.  Toast Chile pods in the skillet for a few minutes, then remove to a bowl of water to soak for 30 minutes. Preheat oven to 450 degrees F.  Place the tomatoes, 1 onion, jalapenos, and 4 cloves of garlic onto a baking sheet.  Roast in the oven 20 minutes, until brown not burned.  Place the roasted veggies, and soaked Chile pods into a blender, along with salt and pepper. Puree until smooth.
Heat veggie oil in a medium skillet over high heat. Cut the marinated flank steaks into cubes or strips.  Cook, stirring occasionally, until the meat is cooked through and most of the liquid has evaporated.
Warm the tortillas in the skillet for a minute on each side.  You can also warm them in the microwave.  Arrange two to three tortillas on a plate, and lay a generous amount of beef over them.  Top with a sprinkle of onion relish and a large spoonful of the pureed salsa.  Add as much cheese as you like.  Garnish with lime wedges, and serve.

Tequila Fish Tacos

Ingredients:

1 Lime, juiced
1 tbs tequila
1 tsp each ground cumin, salt, and pepper.
12 oz Cod or firm White fish, cut into 1 inch pieces
16 (8 inch) tortillas
Canola oil
4 ounces tempera flour
8 ounces prepared tempura batter made with cold water
6 oz bread crumbs
1 cup shredded white cabbage
1/2 cup shredded red cabbage
3 tablespoons chopped cilantro leaves
1/4 cup thinly sliced red onion

Preparation:

In a medium bowl, combine lime juice, tequila, cumin, salt and pepper; mix well.  Add the fish and toss to coat.  Marinate for 10 minutes.  Remove fish from marinade, shake off excess, dredge in tempura flour, and dunk in the cold tempura mixed batter.  Roll in bread crumbs, pressing onto the fish.  One by one add the fish to the oil, making sure to keep the pieces separate.  Fry 4 to 5 minutes or until golden brown.  Remove from oil and drain on a paper towel.
Mix cabbage, cilantro, and onion.  Stack 2 tortillas; place 1/8th of fish on top of each; and top with cabbage mixture.  Pico de Gallo (recipe below), and Tequila Lime Aioli (recipe below).

Pico de Gallo:

Ingredients:

4 Tomatoes, diced
2 tbs chopped cilantro leaves
1/2 red onion, minced
1 tsp minced garlic
1 jalapeno, seeded and minced
1 lime, juiced
salt and pepper to taste

Preparation:

In a bowl mix all ingredients together, season with salt and pepper and refrigerate for an hour.

Tequila Lime Aioli

Ingredients:

3 tbs tequila
1 lime, juiced
8 ounces sour cream
1/4 cup milk
2 tsp minced garlic
1/2 tsp ground cumin
2 tbsp minced cilantro leaves
salt and pepper to taste

Directions:

In a small bowl, combine all ingredients and chill for an hour.  Season with salt and pepper to taste.



































Just Another Manic Maynard

Warning.  Spoiler Alert!  If you have not seen last nights episode (#5)  of the bachlorette do not read any further.

Last night Emily Maynard headed to London with her daughter, Ricki, and the remaining 10 bachelor's.  The show opens with Chris talking to the remaining ten guys about Emily's journey finding her husband.  He tells them there will be a group data and two one-on-ones before dismissing them to the My Fair hotel where they are staying in an amazing suite.  The date card is there and it reads "love takes no prisoners."  Sean is the first guy selected for a one-on-one. While Sean gets ready Kalon whines, what else is new?
Sean and Emily head out on their date.  The couple tour London on a double Decker bus and go sight seeing. Meanwhile back at the hotel Kalon makes a comment to Jef about the fact Jef will always be on a group date with Emily and Ricki, and that Ricki is baggage, taking Jef aback a little.  Back on the date Emily and Sean are sitting on the river bank discussing the last time Sean went on a date. It was 4 months ago and it did not go well as Sean knew right off the bat she was not the right woman for him.  Emily seems to really enjoy Sean and wants to spend more time with him.  The pair then arrive at the speakers corner where Sean gets on a soapbox and talks about love before they head to dinner at the tower of London where he receives a rose.


It's time for the group date.  The group date card reads "A rose by another name would smell as sweet"  meaning they will be doing something that has to do with Shakespeare.  The names are read off-Chris, Arie, Ryan, Doug, Alejandro, Travis, John, and Kalon.  That means the second one-on-one goes to Jef.  The group date is located where William Shakespeare was born, Stratford-upon-Avon.  They will be performing Romeo and Juliet, Arie gets to play a woman and Ryan gets to play Romeo.  Ryan gets a kiss from Emily and the men head to a pub.  Ryan takes Emily aside and gives her a necklace. She loves it. 





Next up Doug takes the "baggage" comment personal because he has a kid himself, and feels he has to tell Emily what Kalon said.  Kalon gets put on the spot in front of everyone when Emily asks him to explain himself.  She asks him if there is anything he can say that can make up for or prove he didn't say "baggage".  He teels Emily he did say it but he didn't mean it and the comment was taken out of context.  She is livid and tells Kalon to get *&^% out.  She goes back to the man and tells them how disappointed she is in them for not telling her sooner.  She tells the men she is not going to hand out a rose on the group date and she is going to go home to her little girl. 


It is time for Emily's date with Jef.  Jef and Emily have afternoon tea at the Chiswick House and get a lesson in ettiquette from Jean.  After tea the couple takes off to a pub..  Jef brings up the subjct of Kalon and tells Emily that he was there when Kalon called Ricki baggage, Jef says if Ricki is baggage then she is a chloe handbag.  Emily loves this.  Next up they head to the London eye for dinner, where she confides in Jef that Kalon broke her confidence.  She tells him he always makes her feel special and the two share there first kiss. YAY!

Time for the cocktail party.  Emily confronts all the guys and says she hopes they do not share Kalon's views.  She puts the guys on the spot and they all seem flustered expect for Ryan who is cool and calm and woos Emily away.  She says she is liking him more and more. 

Rose Ceremony and the nine remaining guys are:

Alejandro-24, Arie-30, Chris-25, Doug-33, Jef-27, John-30,Ryan-31, Sean-28, Travis-30

Everyone but Alejandro gets a rose. 
Tune in next week for a full recap of the Bachlorette Episode 6 when the crew heads to Croatia!


The Art of Coziness

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